Re: feeling upset

Posted by Dr. Bob on June 22, 2004, at 1:36:24

In reply to Re: And this one for incivility?, posted by Dinah on June 21, 2004, at 21:56:11

> http://www.dr-bob.org/babble/psycho/20040614/msgs/358208.html
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> In light of your Effexor administrative actions, wouldn't this be something similar? Either overgeneralization or jumping to conclusions?
> Could you review this one for overgeneralization
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> http://www.dr-bob.org/babble/psycho/20040614/msgs/358814.html
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> I find myself highly offended, as his post would appear to be calling me a fraud.
> And this one for incivility?
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> http://www.dr-bob.org/babble/psycho/20040614/msgs/358820.html
Sorry, could you specify what exactly in those posts might be problematic? In an email if you think that might be better?
> I'm just concerned with the possibility of disruptions in therapeutic progress in people's individual therapy, and the freedom people now feel in expressing their experiences.
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> Dinah
> I am comfortable with the treatment I have chosen and the poster's comments made my angry. I controled it (yeah analysis!), but it did bother me. I wondered then and I do now about the affect of this continued skepticism on more fragile posters. People in difficult spots in their lives don't need cold water thrown all over their treatments of choice.
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> lucy stone
I understand the concern about potential disruptions. OTOH, I'd like to encourage different points of view.
If posters are more fragile, it might help if they were more selective in what they read -- and received more support from others...
> This poster is starting to be very upsetting... I feel the last post about Fathers day was very cold.
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> rs
Please remember not to post anything that could lead others to feel accused or put down. IMO, it's OK for someone to be skeptical. If you feel upset by them, please try to control any angry feelings you have. It may be best just not to respond. Or not even to read any more of their posts.
There may be posters who try to start arguments and upset others. Of course, not everyone who starts an argument or upsets someone else *intends* to do so...
Bob

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Chiming in Racer 6/20/04
Re: Chiming in lucy stone 6/20/04
Re: Chiming in partlycloudy 6/20/04
Re: Chiming in rs 6/21/04
Dr. Bob -- Couldn't post today Aphrodite 6/21/04
Could you review this one for overgeneralization Dinah 6/21/04
Re: And this one for incivility? Dinah 6/21/04
Re: Could you review this one for overgeneralization gardenergirl 6/21/04
Please read this too - not to find fault, but ... Jonathan 6/22/04
Re: feeling upset Dr. Bob 6/22/04
Re: Hey! I win the pool!!!! Dinah 6/22/04
Re: feeling upset -- lack of support Dr. Bob Aphrodite 6/22/04
Re: Could you review this one for overgeneralization lucy stone 6/22/04
Re: feeling upset -- lack of support Dr. Bob » Aphrodite partlycloudy 6/22/04
Re: feeling upset -- lack of support Dr. Bob » Aphrodite Dinah 6/22/04
Dinah partlycloudy 6/22/04
Re: Dinah » partlycloudy Dinah 6/22/04
What I *really* don't get are the inconsistencies Dinah 6/22/04
Re: What I *really* don't get are the inconsistencies gardenergirl 6/22/04
Oh, and one more thing... gardenergirl 6/22/04
Re: Oh, and one more thing... » gardenergirl spoc 6/22/04
Re: Oh, and one more thing... Dinah 6/22/04
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Lucy Stone? Dinah 7/1/04

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