Re: please be civil » Dr. Bob

Posted by Tabitha on October 28, 2003, at 14:56:49

In reply to Re: please be civil » galkeepinon » Tabitha » sb41 » Larry Hoover, posted by Dr. Bob on October 28, 2003, at 8:17:34

> > this post ... comes across like emotional blackmail.
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> > Tabitha
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> Please be sensitive to the feelings of others and don't jump to conclusions about them, post anything that could lead them to feel accused or put down, or exaggerate or overgeneralize. Please?
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> Thanks,
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> Bob
Dear Bob, I don't consider my statement to be an accusation. An accusation would be 'You are using emotional blackmail.' What I said is feedback about how her post might be read. If Kristen's intent is to get emotional support from us, then she needs some feedback about her approach. Protecting her from such feedback with the civility rule is not going to help the situation.

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Re: Well, now I feel stupid and exposed. :( » Dinah fallsfall 10/28/03
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Re: Well, now I feel stupid and exposed. :( » Dinah Susan J 10/28/03
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Re: Well, now I feel stupid and exposed. :( » Dinah jay 10/29/03
Re: Well, now I feel stupid and exposed. :( justyourlaugh 10/29/03
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