Posted by judy1 on December 26, 2003, at 18:59:46
In reply to So, why is it..., posted by Racer on December 26, 2003, at 13:46:11
I think we just regress in the presence of family so that our defenses are down and they instinctively know every trigger to push. I do the same thing, fall into my role despite my best intentions not to. I honestly don't know how to prevent it either, so I'm no help to you. I do know that if my husband ever sided against me I would be furious, simply because he doesn't understand the dynamics present.
I don't know your age, but yes meds have messed with my cycles, and so has stress- could that be true in your case?
I'm sorry you had such a tough visit, maybe you can plan something different next year- or would you feel too guilty? I don't anymore.
take care of yourself- judy
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