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Posted by rjlockhart on January 23, 2006, at 3:48:09
I can cannt take this anymore. I am have destroyed my reputation. I never will post, I am just beliving in hope, and god, who is only here with me, i ...im holding up to against the wall, and now on the floor, in absolute collapse.
i've got to go on with life, i cant post here. I've got to take care of myself. This site has changed its face on me.
Posted by Johnny B. Linux on January 23, 2006, at 3:48:12
In reply to im going to never post again, posted by rjlockhart on January 21, 2006, at 19:53:27
Posted by James K on January 23, 2006, at 3:48:12
In reply to im going to never post again, posted by rjlockhart on January 21, 2006, at 19:53:27
dude, take care of yourself. If you want to post all day and night, or want to take a break that's fine. But your reputation is fine. really.
James k
Posted by shasling on January 23, 2006, at 3:48:12
In reply to Re: im going to never post again, posted by James K on January 21, 2006, at 20:27:03
Reputation? Rj, I didn't think we had reputations here. Seemed to be the most unconditional, unjudgmental place on the planet. Its only about us wanting one another to feel better.
What you will get is honesty, because we care. I for one truly do; I think I know your pain and its a damn monster. I simply want you to feel better and you don't sound like you feel so good.
With much respect,
Suzie
Posted by shasling on January 23, 2006, at 3:48:12
In reply to Re: im going to never post again » James K, posted by shasling on January 21, 2006, at 21:38:15
Posted by Johnny B. Linux on January 23, 2006, at 3:48:12
In reply to oops I didn't mean JK, I meant Rj... (nm), posted by shasling on January 21, 2006, at 21:48:34
Posted by Glydin on January 23, 2006, at 3:48:12
In reply to im going to never post again, posted by rjlockhart on January 21, 2006, at 19:53:27
I have taken many breaks from posting and reading over the years and it's generally been a good thing for me at that time.
I have posted to you and followed your postings for quite a while. I think you have received alot of support, alot of good advice and have been extended alot of caring over the last year or so. That was my experience here also for a long time and I'm grateful for it. The thing is, this type of support, while great, is very limited: folks may not know what to say, folks may have nothing of help to extend AND we don't alway hear the things we want to hear when we are seeking some outside validation. Also, let's face it, folks can get frustrated with one another - likely borne out of an inability to be helpful more so than any other reason.
I experienced something I called "poster progression". The gift of that for me was realizing true help for me would only come from myself and working on my difficulties in a face to face setting. I have received valuable help here but it did boil down to me and my decisions on treatment and what I needed.
This is a diffcult place to let go of. The good time for me had been to be able to return and try and lend some support to others after things became stable for me..... but getting to that place should be your goal at this time. Working on yourself is really important.
Your road the last year has been difficult. My wish for you is to find stability and become able to have a time of contentment with your life.
Posted by ed_uk on January 23, 2006, at 3:48:44
In reply to im going to never post again, posted by rjlockhart on January 21, 2006, at 19:53:27
Matt!!!!!!!!!
You can't stop posting - it's not allowed :) You have friends here.
Ed
Posted by Phillipa on January 23, 2006, at 3:48:44
In reply to Re: im going to never post again » rjlockhart, posted by ed_uk on January 22, 2006, at 14:10:40
Matt and you second Mom. Fondly, Phillipa
Posted by JenStar on January 23, 2006, at 18:07:14
In reply to im going to never post again, posted by rjlockhart on January 21, 2006, at 19:53:27
I think your reputation is OK! At least, it's fine by me. I've always enjoyed reading your posts. If you do decide to stay here, or come back in the future, you will always be welcome. And of course there is the option to change your name, as other folks do periodically.
good luck to you, whatever you decide! :)
JenStar
Posted by LegWarmers on January 23, 2006, at 23:43:51
In reply to im going to never post again, posted by rjlockhart on January 21, 2006, at 19:53:27
matt,
I hope everything is ok
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