Posted by alexandra_k on June 27, 2014, at 14:49:30
In reply to And this is why I don't post on this board., posted by Partlycloudy on June 27, 2014, at 9:12:12
> Not a member of the club. Don't want to be. Thankful to be excluded.
> If this wasn't a rebuff, then it truly don't understand the world. It hurts, and it feels invalidating.
Sometimes I really have no idea what you are talking about. This is one of those times.
> it is unrealistic and would be selfish of me to expect her to be at my beck and call.Does that mean that if you feel... disappointment or let down then that is quickly followed by hatred of yourself for feeling something you have judged to be selfishh?
> I am puzzled and not a bit worried by those who feel there is a sense of what is owed to them because of a long term relationship. It's treatment.
Or not? In which case we seek reimbursement?
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