Posted by mmealltalk on December 9, 2012, at 11:26:13
Hi all_
I find myself once again in a terrible spot. I have been seeing a T whom I love for 21 years at 2x or 3x a week, 3 for the last ten years and now she has moved and is going to be available less. We do skype regularly but it is not the same and i really am having a hard time handling not meeting with her. We went from seeing eachother 3x/week to 4x a month and skyping like 4x a month. She just says that life changes and we dont know what the future will hold but i am very dependent on her and I cant handle this. I miss our sessions so much and while i do think she realizes how much i am attached to her, she thinks its therapeutically better this way, or so she says, and i feel so alone and abandoned by her. I just lost my grandmother and she says that i am making a bigger thing about this bc of that, but i dont think so. My T is so significant to me, has been thru so much with me and now i feel like i am losing her and i really dont know how to handle all this. Any suggestions would help!
Mel
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