Posted by TherapyGirl on October 24, 2011, at 19:05:29
In reply to Re: Funny from New T » TherapyGirl, posted by Dinah on October 23, 2011, at 16:47:47
Dinah, I could have sworn that I wrote a response to your post, but it's not here so my menopause brain must not have submitted it or something.
At any rate, you are right that I need to figure out a whole different way to think about her. I like your stepmother analogy.
I've also realized in the last week or so that part of the issue is that between T retiring and my father's death, I feel like I've lost my history. Or I've at least lost the people who know my history, who know ME. Especially T. That's when it is most apparent that things are so vastly different -- when something comes up in therapy and new T can't read me because she hasn't known me for 26 years.
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