Posted by Annierose on August 8, 2010, at 10:15:20
In reply to Re: I'm going to choke to death on my tears » TherapyGirl, posted by obsidian on August 8, 2010, at 1:38:48
Grieving takes time and it goes at its own pace. And it sucks. But I think what is complicating your effort to move forward and through is hope. A part of you hopes that things will go back to some sort of "normal" with your former therapist. She has proven to be unreliable ... sometimes wonderful and giving then often unavailable and detached. More than anything, I think she needs to let you go so you can move forward. Your capacity to love is all you. That is inside of you. You will be okay. It takes so much time to say 'good-bye'.
I'm so happy to hear you are seeing the new t. She will never be T#1. It's a new relationship and it will take its own course.
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