Posted by Nadezda on September 1, 2009, at 18:00:49
In reply to Re: Do you care how your T spends money?, posted by backseatdriver on August 29, 2009, at 20:03:59
Everyone has weaknesses and foibles. One person may be conscious of stirring up envy and another person may be conscious of not being judgmental about other people's foibles. There are just so many different ways of going "right" and going "wrong" that unless the issue is one of great moral weight to me, I dont' think I would hold it against someone, particularly someone who had shown empathy or caring towards me or others.
I really agree with Dinah that integrity, kindness, and other matters are what most important, and spending, or enjoying pursuits that I don't particularly identify with or value are not something I like to think I'm so quick to judge.
Nadezda
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