Posted by sassyfrancesca on August 24, 2009, at 12:40:35
In reply to New here, need help with new therapist, posted by pweil on August 21, 2009, at 12:33:51
Sounds as if he doesn't have empathy. If that is true, how can he help anybody?!
I couldn't be with a t who was a "blank slate." From my research, etc.....the "blank slate" is not used much anymore. It makes no sense.
I am also, huggy, kissy, touchy-feely, and I need someone who engages with me. Without that, I might as well talk t a wall!
I'd find someone else who gives you what you need.
Hugs, Sassy
When he says "what do you expect of me?" Sounds like he has no idea what to say to you or how to respond.
I would tell him: I expect you to react to my conversation, ask good questions, and help me with my issues. That is why I am here.
Yes, you are making sense; you are paying this person for a service you are not getting. I would get another psycholgist....yesterday!
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