Posted by ceres on August 23, 2009, at 4:01:33
In reply to Grrrr. Bad T habits, posted by moonshadow on August 10, 2009, at 19:20:38
Ugh!
No grooming in therapy. No grooming in work environments, except as applies in salons.
Can you imagine sitting across from a work client & behaving as such? Babooning.Even if I were confiding in a friend & she decided, in a moment of silence, to groom, I would be hurt. I'd think she wasn't that connected & was waiting for a break in the conversation to change course.
Early in a depression, I went to a therapist who sat at her desk facing me. Within a short while she turned away toward her desk & the loud clock on the wall. She began to pick at things & then to excavate her nose while checking the time.
I asked her a question, aimed at illuminating that she was not being present. She was startled.
I left. I imagine how many miserable people haven't left & how she's been able to continue callous & inappropriate behavior.
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