Posted by annierose on July 8, 2009, at 21:13:27
In reply to Re: Annierose, how are you doing?, posted by Dinah on July 8, 2009, at 18:28:42
I've been posting here and there. I read all the time but sometimes I don't know what to say that hasn't already been said - so I keep more quiet. Daisy is around the boards too. I miss AllDone ... I don't know if she still reads.
Alldone ... are you still out there? Fallsfall too ... I miss them both. And GG.
I have never asked my therapist where she goes on vacation ... it's not because I'm not curious ... it's more of a selfish reason. Let's say my family and I were saving $$ to go Timbuktoo next year. And I ask my t where she is going on vacation this summer and she replies, "Timbuktoo". If I go the following year, she might think it's because she went --- even though I was already planning to go there. Do you see how complicated I make a simple question?!?!
I guess this comes from the fact we did go to the same vacation location at the same time a few years back. Luckily we were at different resorts --- but they were next to each other. I was scared the entire trip that we might run into her family ... especially at the exact moment my kids would be screaming and carrying on ... of course that did not happen. But our planes did land minutes apart ... in luggage claim I was holding my breath.
So no, I do not think asking your therapist where he is going on vacation is out of bounds. Every question is fair. It's up to him if he is comfortable answering.
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thread:905593
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