Posted by rskontos on April 7, 2009, at 0:22:04
In reply to Re: i'm all closed up, posted by antigua3 on April 6, 2009, at 16:33:06
B2C,
If i might make a suggestion, how about just sending her a copy of what you posted here. Edited however you need to but send a copy by email or snail mail just so that she gets where you are, and so that maybe she can take the most important, like being there for you, and address it first, then work downwards.
I don't like you feeling so alone. I found that my husband's issues don't bother me so much now that I feel like I can tell my t more. In fact, my husband, who acts sometimes like yours, said that maybe he needed to see someone about his anger issues. My t gave him a referral. So we will see what he does, but I am not making the same mistakes in dealing with him I am calmer now (or I take an xanax, boy it helps me deal with him).
Please let us help especially when you feel so low. And Antigua was right just deal with those precious babies. And I think that since you are already aware of how you need to continue to move forward, you won't fall apart when the first one goes to college like I did.
And even if you do, that will be ok. As Forrest Gump says life is like a box of candy. You never know what you might get or might not like what you get.
I think you are doing ok despite how you feel. It is hard to deal with all you are plus those hormonal prego issues.
I often don't tell t everything that happens. But mine is more around so eventually I get to it.
I am sorry your t is so unavailable. Maybe by sending her copies of your posts here she will get it. Maybe she thinks you are doing better than you feel. I know I feel like I am not making any progress or doing well.
Anyway, we are always here. I hope your t gets on board soon.
so just holler back when you need a shoulder to lean on....the lines are always open.
rsk
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