Posted by lucie lu on February 11, 2009, at 10:03:32
In reply to What's Up with the Intense Stare?, posted by backseatdriver on February 10, 2009, at 20:09:55
I don't know if my T stares throughout the session because I am looking at the rug or books on his shelf much of the time (lol) But when we do have eye contact, it doesn't feel like a stare to me, just like two people talking and connected to one another.
I will say that at work, especially in meetings, I have perfected my own stare which covers up the fact that my mind is somewhere else (usually on a beach with palm trees). I sometimes wonder if it is unrealistic for me to assume my T never does the same ;)
poster:lucie lu
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