Posted by rskontos on February 10, 2009, at 14:01:41
In reply to Re: Developmental stages in therapy/daisym » rskontos, posted by DAisym on February 9, 2009, at 23:12:59
**he more I'm coming to see that it isn't *being* special that I really want - it is being good enough to be special - to be allowed to think of myself as worth being special to someone. I'm not explaining it well - it feels really complicated.***
Daisym,
Actually, you explained it VERY WELL, and get it exactly right. I don't think I am worthy enough to be special. I think it was made clear enough when I was younger. So now, it is so hard to re-assess that earlier assessment. You know?
And you've helped me tremendously, I am sorry I haven't let you know that more often. I get more from Babble. My T knows if I get confused by him or let down, this is where I come for clarity.
So many of you Babblers I cherish your words thoughts and insights and you Daisym are definitely one of those Babblers.
Don't think for one minute you're a thread killer!!
take care,
and I think your t is exactly right for you.
rsk
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