Posted by Little Soul on January 3, 2009, at 21:32:07
In reply to A nice compliment from husband, posted by Dinah on January 3, 2009, at 13:55:24
Dinah I'm so glad your husband gave you that great feedback. I think sometimes we don't realize how we come across on the outside when we are all tied up in knots on the inside. I know that, often to my surprise, I've gotten feedback that I appear calm and interested in people especially when I'm in difficult situations. That seems so outside of my reality because I think I'm just making things worse. It's helpful to calibrate our experiences so that we don't beat up on ourselves.
Good for you!
LS
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