Posted by antigua3 on December 27, 2008, at 0:45:29
In reply to Re: I'm not going to be confused! » antigua3, posted by DAisym on December 26, 2008, at 23:21:24
"Write it down. It is short - type it big and take it with you"
This cracked me up. You know me too well...
I get it that you think I should really do this. I already have cold feet, knowing that someone else agrees that it's what I should do.
You also nailed me on the other important aspect: "don't rush in and try and take it back." That is exactly what I would do.
So, you've made me think of this more seriously, although I had been thinking of it seriously. You just pointed out a few things that could scare the living daylights out of me because I hadn't thought this through enough.
That's it! I wrote the words but didn't think through them. I will now. So thank you.
I know it sounds like I'm laughing this off, but that's pure, abject fear talking. But thank you for reminding me to be prepared, not to back off and most importantly, to give myself a "cooling off" period at the end of the session. My pdoc frequently mentions that I "storm" out of his office, but it's usually because I've gotten annoyed at the end. (If he thinks that behavior is storming, I'm even more afraid of showing my anger, because that is nothing compared to what I feel inside!)
Thanks again Daisy.
antigua
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