Posted by twinleaf on November 19, 2008, at 9:53:23
In reply to Bravo! Applause! Standing Ovation! Whistles!... » twinleaf, posted by stellabystarlight on November 17, 2008, at 20:38:10
Thank you so much, SBS! You always write the dearest, most emotionally tuned-in posts, and they are always so tremendously supportive. So valuable for those of us who receive one! I knew that I did the right thing, but, as that letter slipped into the mailbox, I was thinking that I was setting something in motion that had an unknown ending. Will he be reprimanded? Will other analysts no longer refer patients to him? Will he feel ashamed, and realize that he needs to change some things, or will he deny everything and say that I a pathological liar?
You haven't posted too much lately about your relationship with your own T, but I'm left at the moment with the feeling that you are more intelligent and emotionally sensitive than he is, and that might have led to a role reversal, where you know more quickly than he does what is happening, and what all the nuances and ramifications in your relatonship are at any given moment. If that's true, it can be tough to deal with. I hope you'll tell me if I'm completely off here!
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