Posted by Cal on October 15, 2008, at 6:55:09
In reply to Re: How often do you....?, posted by Suedehead on October 15, 2008, at 6:41:26
Yes I think about her every day at some point or other. I think this is what we are supposed to to, "use" our T's in this way. No man is an island and to go forward in life we first need to know theres a secure base waiting for us when we come back, as we all need to come "home" and rest at some point in our lifes. The way I think about her has changed, the first fantasys I had about her that kept me afloat have calmed down and the "real" T is more or less the one I think about now, but I can still go into that fantasy where I think me and T are the only people in the whole wide world, much like how a baby must first experience "needing" someone in the womb, that relationship where only baby and mother exist, accept that would all be done with words, now we are fully aware of ourselfs, we tend to feel embarassed at our need to feel just like that baby in the womb again? But can you imagine how bland and cold life would be withhout that special someone that wants nothing from you emotionally and is there just for you? its normal and natural to want these things.
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