Posted by Looney Tunes on September 29, 2008, at 19:36:20
Hey folks,
I am really stuck. I have been with T for 5 months going 2-3 times per week. The problem is I still don't know what to say. I fidget, talk about the room, ask him questions, sit in silence, EVERYTHING but say "hey this is one of my many problems that we need to address."
Instead I constantly ask him if he is mad or wants to fire me. That is about it..then back to the color of the rug or silence or him.
I can't remember my past therapy being like this, but it was so many years ago? Is this a normal beginning?
Do I just need to take a leap? But it doesn't seem like he is ready for that....He is SOOOOO relaxed that the room could collapse and he would still be mellow. Argh.
Thanks for any insight.
poster:Looney Tunes
thread:854830
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