Posted by TherapyGirl on September 28, 2008, at 19:12:13
In reply to Re: My T is going to be out another 2 weeks, posted by Nadezda on September 28, 2008, at 10:27:36
Thank you so much, Nadezda. You can't imagine how helpful your words have been -- to get me out of this rut of passivity and help me see that perhaps my request is not unreasonable. The worst she can do is say no, right? And I don't lose anything by asking. Thanks for pointing out that this does not make me a failure.
I will say, on her behalf, that she has been through an extraordinarily hard time. And I am sympathetic about that and worried about her. I just wasn't prepared for her to be so unavailable for so long.
I didn't call her today because I'm afraid of what I might say (because I'm angry). Maybe a note in the mail tomorrow, which she should receive by Tuesday, is the way to go. That feels less intrusive than calling her at home, when it may or may not be an okay time. At least a note would give her the choice of when to deal with me, right?
I'll keep you posted. I do so appreciate your words of wisdom and your support. It's so great to have this place to come where people understand how devastating this is for me.
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