Posted by daveuk08 on August 18, 2008, at 17:57:48
In reply to Therapy tomorrow (**suicide triggers**), posted by Wittgensteinz on August 18, 2008, at 9:04:48
Hiya Witt,
Firstly let me give you a big ((((((Witt)))))).
This may hurt,but I have to say it,Having lost my Slinky 15weeks ago to the "S" word.
I fully understand the pains you must be going through in your head,mine may not be as great as yours but they shaw aint easy.
So you attempt doing a "S",(sorry I can`t say that word),I know it may seem the only way out for you to get rid of the pain.
Consider this,your t wanted you to make him a promise,your t is human and has feelings,how would he feel if he was doing therapy with you for who knows how long,and then you do the "S" thing,do you not think how emotionly this could affect him,I know how slinky`s death has affected me ,so what must it be like for him,and if you are only just one of his patiants,imagin if more than one did it, or maybe one has done it in the past,so thats why he wants that promise,thats why I think that what he is asking is not unfair.
Secondly, you say your partner recently lost his father,can you imagin how he would feel if when he returned not only having lost his father,he would have lost you in a much worse way,and that could possbly send him over the edge.
Please please,please,not only make a promise to your t,you wont take your own life, make it to us as well,we have already had 2 this year,and most of all make a promise yourself aswell,I know you don`t want to do it because you are seeking help from your t and us.
Lastly,remember those that get left behind hurt more from what you do than you`ve ever hurt in your life,I know because I`m hurting reel bad.I hope this is of some help.
Dave.(Say no to the "S" word)
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