Posted by sunnydays on July 25, 2008, at 23:42:42
In reply to Re: sad, scared, angry at T-, posted by no_rose_garden on July 25, 2008, at 12:44:24
Yes, I am better. We got a day and time figured out by phone tag (and it's one day sooner than usual :) ). I do agree that my T could have handled it better, but I think anybody (even people we pay for this important service) are allowed to make mistakes once in a while. Taken in the context of this three-year + relationship, this isn't that big a deal (although don't tell me that yesterday). Whoever said I am getting more secure, I think I am. Otherwise I never would have shown the level of anger I did in my email. I was pretty harsh for me (probably not for anyone else). Now I'm kind of regretting it, but his voice is so calming and radiating warmth on my phone message telling me that we're fine even though I might be scared or nervous about being mad at him that I'm trying to just not worry about it. I don't know how he does that with his voice, and why it can't be like that all the time. I wonder if it's conscious?
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