Posted by muffled on April 29, 2008, at 15:53:04
In reply to SOMETIMESBLUE, posted by B2chica on April 29, 2008, at 14:06:05
I watch video.
Its hard being a Mom, we can lose ourselves.
Our bodies change w/pregnancy, our homones get awry.
Then there is this child, OMG, we love this being SO much, but no other being can also SO test our patience.
I struggled very hard when kids were small.
I needed to have times for ME.
Sometimes, 1x/wk I would go for breakfast OUT. Just a bun and coffee. But I would go to a sit down place. I had a whole hour that was ALL MINE. It was huge, it set me up for the rest of the week. I swear, it was how I survived.
I also don't worry bout messy house and perfectly clean kids. I learn LOTS. But the main thing, is us moms need to have our own special times, even if it can only be 1/hr/wk. Just for ourselfs, so we can try and find ourselves, cuz sometimes, its such a big change, and its kinda easy to get lost.
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