Posted by Dinah on April 27, 2008, at 18:59:16
In reply to AND, posted by muffled on April 27, 2008, at 17:53:47
yeah...
Maybe me too. I'm not afraid in theory. In practice it might be scary.
But then I probably wouldn't notice unless someone made an effort to be noticeable. And if someone made an effort to bring it to my attention, maybe it wouldn't be a bad thing for me to be scared?
I just don't think in those terms. I can't imagine any reason I'd ever notice with anyone. Except my husband of course. The only other time I remember was the pervert at the library.
I remember once we were talking about sexual stuff in a completely appropriate way, and my therapist moved out of the relaxed open legged position he was in and it did *occur* to me that if he were a real guy it was a possible unintentional consequence of what we were talking about no matter how fat and ugly I am. But he never gave me any reason to think I had anything to worry about.
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