Posted by Dinah on January 7, 2008, at 17:48:34
In reply to how to accept when T says nicies about me?, posted by llurpsienoodle on January 7, 2008, at 17:45:08
"But I have trouble really letting that sink in."
By the way, avoiding meltdowns in a foreign country without optimal support from your husband really is doing great. That doesn't mean it didn't feel awful, or that you weren't upset, or weren't scared.
Could that be what feels wrong about accepting the praise? That it's saying you did great because you behaved well, but doesn't acknowledge the pain?
poster:Dinah
thread:802892
URL: http://www.dr-bob.org/babble/psycho/20080101/msgs/804885.html