Posted by twinleaf on December 11, 2007, at 22:08:08
In reply to why i don't go to the mall....TOO UGLY, posted by star008 on December 11, 2007, at 2:04:04
Yup, I've got this, too. I don't know if it's something just women have. I've had two male Ts- I told the first one (the one who imploded and threw me out) about it, and he said, kind of scornfully, "well, how good do you have to look to be satisfied?" This reply made me feel very upset and misunderstood. I don't think he understood how bad a problem it can be; I see such an ugly face. I know it's not right to think that way, but I can't help it. Men HAVE to look in the mirror carefully to shave every day, and they seem OK with that.
I admire you Dinah. Having gotten such an "off" reaction with my first T, I haven't told the present T. I know I should. He's much better and more sensitive about almost everything.
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