Posted by Dinah on December 8, 2007, at 15:49:25
In reply to Re: Some random thoughts for a Saturday.... » Dinah, posted by lovelorn on December 8, 2007, at 14:49:21
I don't think he meant it like that. I know that he certainly has clients who utilize his professional services, and to whom he provides professional services in a caring and professional manner. He was speaking to me about therapeutic relationships similar to ours.
I have to say I wouldn't have continued to see him if there was "enough caring" for me to continue to work on my issues. If he were only a professional who provided a caring enough and knowledgeable enough environment. That sort of relationship would have been far more time limited and sad to say would not have brought about much change in me. My issues, I'm sure. Change is glacial with me, and relies heavily on the relationship itself.
It's a valid way to see therapy, and there may have been times that I viewed therapy that way. So if it's what you need, I'm very glad you found it.
(Have you read Yalom? Our relationship is more like that type of therapeutic relationship.)
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