Posted by muffled on December 4, 2007, at 0:34:50
In reply to Re: Have to go to Therapy........UGGGGGGGGG, posted by rskontos on December 3, 2007, at 23:04:42
Sometimes those hard sessions are the most productive.
I think its good T meets your peeps.
I'm sorry the dinner didn't go well. I must admit as I read it I was thinking uh oh :-(
But you learning new stuff all the time.
Your T is learning WITH you.
She seems a calm and smart and honest T.
She not giving you a line of sh*t.
She not touch you.
She stay calm.
I think maybe your peeps need to be heard, and then they will calm down some. The peeps are like anyone else and they will fight sometimes, and be troubles.
But they like anybody else. They just trying to survive. They got bad points AND good points.
You not trying to get rid of them. Just stop the fighting and troubles so it can be calmer.
I hope you can find a part that can help you with this task.
I think peeps is alot like IRL kids, once you get a handle on them and have firm rules and stuff, they happier. They calmer, all is better. Still fights, but calmer more.
But I guess someboddy goto be the main person. The boss who helps sort stuff out. There's goto be a boss somewhere for you to function as well as you have so far. i wonder where the boss went? Or why she went? She THERE, but just not doing nothing I guess.
This stuff is all so confusing.
Hang in there and you will make progress.
Sorry its so hard, I really wish it weren't so hard for you :-(
Safe hugs to ya.
Muffled
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