Posted by muffled on October 7, 2007, at 23:52:07
In reply to Re: :-( :-( Dunno WHAT to do***SEX trigger***:-, posted by muffled on October 7, 2007, at 21:54:02
Its dawning on me.
I am being flip.
This is serious, and hurtful stuff to my DH.
I must maintain seriousness. And there's been good and helpful and serious replies.
And I thank each of you for this.
All info is being assimilated and thot out.
I read this thread many times and am thinking.
I will let T read this and then I don't goto say.
I said lots more than I intended to, but there were such good replies and it helped me to think.
At one point I was slightly...triggered?, thats not the word, but anyhow, I do not mean to be rude or uncaring.
And yes. I can see humour as a useful tool.
Make the contact fun.
However, my only concern is that the 'fun/playful' part might be a young part, and if so, well then that just seems wrong, and the thot of it can cause upset I would expect.
I have kids IRL.
My inside kids feel real too.
This is very challenging for me all this.
Excuse me if I seem silly at times.
I mean well.
I treasure everyones words.
Muffled
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