Posted by Dory on October 1, 2007, at 14:38:06
In reply to Re: horrible things.. triggers and more, posted by Phillipa on September 30, 2007, at 21:50:02
>Just life and I have to forget and live for tomorrow the past is gone.
living for tomorrow... well, living for today is a good thing to do, it's all any of us can do to bring us any peace
but on the note of forgiveness... forgiveness has many facets and definitions. Forgiveness and forgetting are not blood relatives. Forgetting blocks forgiveness and denies it validation. Honouring one's own pain is an important process... recognizing the other person's role, deliberate or not, is also important. They both work in concert to acheive real forgiveness.
suffering at the hands of another doesn't make sense.. i agree.
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