Posted by Dory on September 29, 2007, at 19:50:55
In reply to Re: something really nice.... » Dory, posted by twinleaf on September 28, 2007, at 19:03:10
i do think so... if we can find a way to make that happen.. i mean, i have friends that i have known for over ten years and i still "perform" for them.. it's going to take a lot of work on his part to help me understand how not to do that. Some of it is circumstances, a lot of it actually.. and when the atmosphere is right i just become someone else.
we have been together about the same amount of time... i'm just like a fortress. i never understood just how bad my level of mistrust was.. a women i know who understands me very well (she works in mental health and has known me for years) recently told me she was impressed at how much i trust my T at this point, that he must be doing a great job. :o) That made me feel good but it was weird too.. i never knew... i never understood how bad it was.
you should be very proud of yourself :o) and feel very blessed to have such a good match. i believe it makes all the difference in the world.
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