Posted by Dinah on September 17, 2007, at 9:04:46
In reply to Need to post here **leaving T. trigger**(long), posted by 10derheart on September 16, 2007, at 17:05:22
Don't worry that we'll be upset about your posts or replies. I'm always happy to see you, but I won't judge you if you don't reply right away, or post a lot. Do what's right for you.
I think I have an inkling of what you're feeling. A year or so ago when I was planning to move, I would get absolutely hysterical at being the one who was leaving. It was worse, I think, than when he all but left me. Even though our relationship was at a pretty low point at the time, it was unbelievably hard. I can't imagine what it would be like if our relationship was good at the time.
But if your situation is anything like mine, I wasn't really doing it to myself. It was a result of exterior conditions and exterior pressures. It wasn't a capricious decision. And I'm sure yours isn't either.
((((10der))))
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