Posted by Honore on April 4, 2007, at 16:10:07
In reply to Re: trigger, posted by Dinah on April 4, 2007, at 14:59:19
I'm glad you're seeing your T. Just being together means a lot-- does a lot-- even though it doesn't make anything happen-- being together is so important, even though nothing "seems" to happen. It's worth the time. You deserve that time.
I'm sorry about the neurologist. Doctors ! Grrr. ....not my favorite people. They're too often underprepared for any patient, and out of touch-- this one surely doesn't know what he's talking about. Don't let him get to you.
I know you love the work-- but if your company had one good leader or manager, I believe you would be given the respect and consideration you deserve. No one can put out all the fires, and plug all the holes for years, without a break-- without time for their own life, for their family, for relaxation and getting away.
I'm sorry it seems like too much. Don't give up.
You're working on it--maybe not consciously, but I believe you are. Maybe your T will understand better some of the pressure and strain. Maybe this will show him, more than before, that it's harder than he realizes, and that you do need a change.
Take care, Dinah. Maybe the anniversary, and the neurologist, and the crisis just descended too close together, and it's hard to put it all into one box and contain it. But you will. I"m sure of it.
Honore
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