Posted by LadyBug on March 8, 2007, at 14:39:48
In reply to Re: Fantasy Therapy » Daisym, posted by frida on March 8, 2007, at 14:13:52
I think this is a great topic.
For today, I'd definetly pick my T. Last week, I would have picked NO T. I like my T just fine. She is awesome and tries to do everything she can, without breaking any boundaries, to show me how much she cares about me, likes to see me, even loves me. I find it hard to take in for some reason. It scares me sometimes and I think it's safer not to allow someone to care for me, because the people in my life that supposedlly care for me aren't reliable and I can't count on them. I can count on her to be reliable and I trust her too.
We work well together and should after 10 years. My issues run so deep and I'm a slow learner. Part of my issues are my marriage and I've tried to stick with it and try harder. Well, now I'm planning on a life of my own without my spouse. She's helping me pave the way. It's not something that happens over night as I've been married for almost 23 years. I've turned over every rock, and it isn't working therefore it must end. It's not what I want, but the stuff that goes on is not acceptable in a marriage.
Without my T right now, I wouldn't have a whole lot of strength to move ahead in my life. She's so good for me. I love her like I wish I could love my own mom. My T is in my heart and I know she'll always be there.
I hope others feel that there fantasy T would be there own T. But some T's are better than others. I am fortunate to have a wonderful T! Do I ever get angry with her, sure and she get's irritated with me at times. But we work hard and work through it. No pain, no gain!
LadyBug
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