Posted by JoniS on February 7, 2007, at 8:30:13
In reply to Re: from Ms. Schmidt: therapist self disclosure » Daisym, posted by ShortElise on February 7, 2007, at 1:52:27
I want to tell you all how helpful your posts have been to me. This is my first post but I've read a lot lately. Your issues are so similar to mine. My T is very good, but I wish he would disclose a little more. I am curious about him and his life, and I think I could trust him more if I could ask him some questions and not be fearful of bumping into another boundary. When I do, I guess I feel rejection (even though I know it isn't it feels like it) I put my T on a pedestal and I believe he is awesome and that he has a great marriage. Part of the reason is that I began seeing him due to my husband's unfaithfulness, and a subsequent major change in our lives. I was extremely depressed but much better now, thankfully.
I've been seeing my T for 3.5 years. I know I feel love for him, but I dance around talking about it. It was helpful to me to read one of you described it as "Therapy love" I don't really know what I want from him besides being professional and respectful, and somehow caring.
Sorry so long. Thanks for your openness and just sharing your experiences
J
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