Posted by Scentedgarden on January 15, 2007, at 20:43:06
In reply to Re: ever feel like never going back even if its good? » Scentedgarden, posted by canadagirl on January 14, 2007, at 21:31:43
> HI Scented Garden, yes I have felt that way. (I'm currently out of therapy but I only take it in small doses due to my insurance plan so I stop and start every once in awhile). The attachment is hard but it's important to finish and have an ending, not just to bolt and never show up again. I don't know why, but it just doesn't work as well, painful as it may be. It is that "love" that heals. When we get what we need it's so hard to give it up isn't it. But it doesn't have to be forever. You can always go back if you need to. You will have accomplished something worthwhile in your life (and yes it hurts but it gets better, it really does). It's hard for the therapist in some cases too. I hope I'm not being too wishy washy here. But I want you to know I can relate.
CANADAGIRL !!!!!!!!!
thanks canandagirl...i liked reading you post,as it brings comfort to me...im hurting thru this right now too much..and i dont seem to know where i will find the support and comfort i need...but i have read your post above again and although im crying as i type this ..i have found your words to be encouraging and loving..and gentle...and kind...
thanks for saying it can be hard on them too...as this helps me not feel so frewaky or weird for thinking that too...
and thanks for saying you can relate... somehow that just means alot...
sorry i took so long to reply. you're verymuch appreciated...
i hope your well.....are you in Cananda? daft question i guess..!! anyway i know someon who has a house in Banff Canmore..
and if you have anything else you'd like to sy plz get intouch...many thanks!!!!SG
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