Posted by muffled on January 11, 2007, at 21:22:44
In reply to Re: Sometimes it hurts here, posted by bil on January 11, 2007, at 19:47:26
> Muffled-
> I am really sorry for being such a bad psycho-babbler... I only posted a few times, (when I was stopping seeing my therapist) now I'm not seeing anyone, and it's been difficult; esp over the 'holidays'.**Bil, sorry its been difficult.
You are not a bad babbler. I think thats the joy of babble, you can participate, or not. And its OK. I go thru periods where I post alot(perhaps annoyingly so!), and periods where I post very little. Sometimes reading words from others is helpful, sometimes its helpful to post, sometimes its helpful to stay away...I don't think there's a right or wrong to it.
I think people tend to babble when they need it, and if they don't , they drift away. And thats OK too.
>
> I can't handle posting too regularly- I get snowed under with guilt for not answering everyone, and then I beat myself up... I can only dip in now and again.**I used to feel SO bad bout not posting or forgetting to reply etc. I used to apologize all over. But I now realize that we all have our times. So I don't fret about it so much.
I also tend to stay with one board or I get overwhelmed.
I also don't worry if noone answers a post i've posted. Heck I'm kinda dissapointed, but I realize now that its not personal, its just noone is twigged by the post.
Post if it helps you, just read it you want.
Its all OK.
I beleive this is meant to be a safe place of helping each other and of not feeling so alone.
Not a place of pressures and hurts.
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> bill
**Nice to meet ya Bill!
Take care,
Muffled
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