Posted by JeffSmith on December 31, 2006, at 9:17:16
In reply to OK, so now I feel like a craphead, posted by muffled on December 31, 2006, at 7:23:50
> Sorta like how I just cannot understand for the life of me why my T is nice to me? WHY? What are her motivations?????
I can totally relate to that one!
When I used to see my shrink I always thought that way too: Like "she's only being nice because she gets paid to do so". Eventually I came to actually believe that she genuinly liked and cared about me as a person.
They (the shrinks) chose to go into the profession of helping others, which they hopefully will do a good job at so in the end does it really matter what motivates them to do so?
But you could still always just ask her why she's nice to you and hopefully she gives you the truthful answer. Im guessing what you really just wanna know is if she likes you or not?
Or am I totally off base here? : )
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