Posted by madeline on December 27, 2006, at 10:14:30
In reply to Well I guess I learned something, posted by Happyflower on December 27, 2006, at 9:43:41
See, this is why I think you are so valuable to the boards. You are encountered with a problem and you learn something about yourself.
Then you share this realization with the people on the boards.
Personally, I get very triggered when I feel that people don't feel safe and protected (because I never was) and can tend to go on the attack.
My mom was the queen of emotional coercion and man, that hurts. It just nullified my emotions and experience and made me feel personally responsible for everything that she ever felt or did. It was not fair for her to do that and I get triggered over that too.
(((Happyflower))) and (((Maddie)))
poster:madeline
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