Posted by Karolina on December 13, 2006, at 23:46:56
In reply to How long????, posted by Karolina on December 3, 2006, at 16:12:58
Sorry Elaine and muffled for a late response.
muffled: I guess I probably should be careful about what he says. Some of the things he say do seem to border on being inappropriate at times. Like...one time we were talking about us and sex and he was telling me that he was 'slowing down in that department', that he's on some medications that interfere (if you know what I mean), and that he has enough trouble trying to keep up with his wife ! It felt weird to hear him talk about his sexuality/sexlife like that. Sometimes I think maybe he is taking my attraction to him personally ?? Thanks so much for your thoughts on this.
Elaine: thanks for your response, I've been thinking of you and wondering how you have been. I think thats exactly what it is - my mom just doesn't 'get' therapy and I think it's because she's never been in it (though I think she could benefit from some).
I'm wondering if my T maybe is fighting with himself. He seems to go back and forth between maybe taking my feelings for him personally and at other times almost acting too 'clinical', making statements like: "The boundaries are clear. I'm the doctor, you're the patient." Yet he seems to enjoy talking about the "if" statements...the "If i were to say to you, you're sexy...", "If we had sex..." and "if I was your age I'd be attracted to you" kind of statements.
It's all so confusing...thanks again you guys for your input on this, I might try to write more about it later.
bLove,
-Karolina-
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