Posted by LlurpsieBlossom on December 7, 2006, at 9:11:14
In reply to Telling something hard/bad without hurting more?, posted by ElaineM on December 6, 2006, at 20:41:42
Elaine,
you've been a regular here for a while now. Ask yourself- how do YOU feel when one of us reveals something bad that happened to them, or something bad that they did?Don't be so hard on yourself. You are going through a lot right now, and if you're isolated and not getting out much, it's too easy to let your thoughts run away on you.
I know you need help- is there a way to make that happen? Is this what telling the hard thing is all about? Please be honest and open with someone caring. They may not say all the right things, but if you know them and they are good people, they will probably try to say/do the right things.
do take care of you ((((hugs))))
-ll
p.s. whenever you have revealed something personal about yourself, I have never been grossed out/repulsed/disgusted/critical. Actually, I think it makes me feel closer to you, because I know that you are willing to share something that is private and personal-- that you TRUST me enough with your struggles to allow me to get to know you better. Trust is a very good thing. I hope you can find some of it soon. (((((more hugs))))) and soft kleenex for your tears.
p.p.s. I'm gonna go to a cafe in a bit to do some data analysis. you wanna meet me there for a virtual chai latte? my treat :)
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