Posted by LadyBug on December 3, 2006, at 22:34:42
In reply to Gift giving?, posted by All Done on December 1, 2006, at 23:05:51
My T won't accept gifts either. Early on she let me give her just about anything, I think she was afraid of me feeling rejected. Last Christmas I tried to give her a gift but she refused it and it made me feel horrible. So I have vowed not to go there no matter how tempted I may be. I think she will allow me to give her a card, one that I will make. If I were to make some cookies she would probably let me bring some for us to share during our session.
I'm ok with this. Giving her something becomes too stressful as I would worry if it was good enough etc.
LadyBug
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