Posted by SatinDoll on November 24, 2006, at 20:01:58
In reply to Just So Sad, posted by Daisym on November 24, 2006, at 16:44:51
Hi Daisy,
Are holidays normally happy for you or do you think it is this year because of the separation? What is going on in your life is a huge stresser and it makes sense to me you feeling like hiding. That is what I like to do, just sleep the pain away.
I am not into the holidays either and I am sick of putting on the happyface for everyone. I am sick of going through the motions of it all. I think holidays can be happy times for most when their lives are going great, but it also can be one of the most painful times of the year for a lot of people.
I think without being with someone special especially during the holidays really suck especially when you look around and everone seems so joyful. You do have your son to hold tight, that is a plus.
I think when I have this in my imediate future, I am going to plan a vacation to a warm island and avoid the whole holiday thing. But then again, I probably won't because of the kids. But it is an idea.
Take care Daisy, when do you see your T next? I think he will be able to help you like he always seems to do. I am so glad you have such a special T. Plus he is back from vacation all rested up, so bring it on, he can handle all your pain. ((((((Daisy)))))
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