Posted by annierose on November 8, 2006, at 20:14:57
In reply to Re: Unconditional acceptance » annierose, posted by Dinah on November 7, 2006, at 21:33:23
No I haven't been clear with her about what I need. I don't think I know myself - or didn't know until I started writing my thoughts down in this thread. It's hard to ask for what I need, but I will, or I'll try. We have worked through similar impasses before.
It feels like I have lost her. And part of that feeling comes from having to cut back to twice a week. Was it hard for you to cut back? A huge part of me is okay with it, knowing the reality of my financial constraints, I must do this. Another part says, I won't matter to her as much.
My husband and I know the future and now we just want to make this living situation work. We had a great evening doing homework with both kids, reading stories and joking around. It calms my nerves to feel "normal" in that moment. And I went to yoga last night --- that carries me for a day or two.
Thank you for all your support. I feel such strength from my friends at Babble.
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