Posted by antigua on September 26, 2006, at 0:25:29
In reply to I Need some help, but be gentle..., posted by daisym on September 25, 2006, at 20:15:07
I'm really sorry this is happening now when you feel you need his absolute full attention.
It's hard to remember our Ts are human--and have feelings of their own that have nothing to do with us. He's trying, so keep trying with him.
The other day I went to see my T. The door was locked so I rang the bell... a few times. She finally came to the door, hid behind it actually and said "we don't have an appt today." Just like that, she was ready to shut the door. But.. I reminded her of the schedule change we had made and she said come back in 1/2 hour. I felt so very rejected. I didn't like that look on her face, of me having done something wrong.
she called me 25 minutes later to come back, and her "T" personality was in place, like nothing had ever happened. Didn't change my rejection, or that I was a nuisance to her. We talked about it, but I really didn't like the person I saw.
so they're human. But your T is trying his best. Let him do his job, and you do yours, by trusting him to work this out.
best,
antigua
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