Posted by Poet on September 22, 2006, at 17:26:56
In reply to T stuff, knowing what you feel?***triggers » Poet, posted by ElaineM on September 21, 2006, at 22:39:50
Hi Elaine,
I have trouble feeling positive emotions. Definitely expressing things like love. Even to my husband, who I have no doubt that I love.
I think that he needs to give you some space and stop trying to guilt you into doing things with him socially. It's a cruel mind game. You need time to think about what he means to you outside therapy and if you do have the same *love* for him that he says he has for you. It sounds like he's telling you that you love him; you're telling him (and us) you aren't sure of anything.
I think you have a pretty normal reaction to being stuck in a confusing situation. I think he's being selfish, yes, I said it, selfish. Putting his feelings before yours. That just isn't fair to you. One emotion I can feel is anger and reading your post made me mad at him for causing you to feel so confused and guilty over your confusion.
Please take care of yourself. Keep posting.
More cyber hugs. ((((Elaine))))
Poet
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