Posted by alexandra_k on September 20, 2006, at 9:19:29
In reply to Re: I told my husband **child abuse trigger** » llrrrpp, posted by Daisym on September 17, 2006, at 18:37:59
> I'm beginning to think that I didn't deserve the abuse, and in order to fully believe that, I need to view my guilt with a different lense.
> Does that make any sense? I'm not going back to being a victim, I'm actually using the truth to lay the blame on the correct doorstep.
Yeah. I understand.
A way of alleviating guilt. Guilt and shame and embarrasment and maybe rage... Horrible feelings like that.
Is it possible... I just want to put this out there for your consideration... But is it possible... That blame is besides the point?
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