Posted by LadyBug on September 12, 2006, at 14:51:14
In reply to My next T session topic about my marriage and life, posted by happyflower on September 12, 2006, at 11:35:13
Happyflower
This is exactly what I'm talking about in therapy and it's hard and painful! I won't go into my details cuz I don't have the time right now. But it hurts to bring up all the things my husband has done that has hurt me. Cheating was one of the many things, along with drinking and drugs. I don't know why I've stayed. My husband is 58 right now, he's 9 1/2 years older than me and has a son too. I know all about the step son/ex wife crap. I am long past that stage by now as my step son just graduated from medical school in May of this year and is now doing his residency as a Dr. He didn't take after his loser dad that's for sure. I want out, and I'm slowly working on it. I haven't seen my T for almost 3 weeks because of scheduling problems. I'm going on Thurs. this week and I really don't want to waste it talking about my waste of a husband! I want to talk about my feelings I have for my T. I love her just as you love your T. Even though I don't have to deal with a sexual side of it? She's awesome and I miss our connection.
I do think your idea of talking about your marrigae is wonderful. It is where you are right now in your life and you and in the same boat as I am. I have 2 great daughters that are my life and my love. I'm grateful for them. They are awesome. They must take after me right?
I hope we can talk back and forth with each other, we have so much in common!!! It's amazing. I've been reading but not posting, the pain of my marriage is so great right now that I withdraw from people so I can't be hurt anymore. Crazy I know, but it's what I do to protect my little heart. Let me know what else your thinking. When do you see your T again.
Also, one person can't make the marriage work, it takes 2!!! I've tried for years, but my husband manages to screw everything up he comes in contact with!!! He's a piece of work!
LadyBug
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