Posted by pegasus on August 18, 2006, at 9:05:30
In reply to Re: Should I cut back? Continued, posted by Daisym on August 17, 2006, at 21:42:12
Yeah, it sounds like you have two (at least) opposing things going on in your brain. Your two parts seeing things so differently. It's so difficult and confusing when that happens. But both parts have their needs, and their reasons, and you *are* making sense. It's wonderful that you and your therapist are able to see that. But it's still hard to figure out what to do, isn't it?
Maybe there isn't a really wrong decision here. You can always try something new and then change your mind again if it doesn't work. The decision isn't the hard part, is it? It sounds like the hard part is maybe something around being so vulnerable to whatever your T says. That's always the hard part for me. If they just say the right thing, I can usually do whatever I need to. I think Dinah should write that book, and make it mandatory reading in therapist school.
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